{"id":676,"date":"2023-08-29T10:02:32","date_gmt":"2023-08-29T10:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/?page_id=676"},"modified":"2026-03-28T09:04:03","modified_gmt":"2026-03-28T09:04:03","slug":"voldscirkler","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/index.php\/systematisk-vold\/voldscirkler\/","title":{"rendered":"Voldscirkler"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"676\" class=\"elementor elementor-676\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b6198fb elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b6198fb\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34503ec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"34503ec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Voldscirkler<\/h2><p>Voldscirklerne er baseret p\u00e5 k\u00e6rlighedsrelationen mellem ud\u00f8ver og offer. Det starter ud med det f\u00f8rste m\u00f8de, og herefter fors\u00f8ger vi at beskrive hvordan processen typisk ser ud. <br \/>Vi har tilf\u00f8jet traumabonding som opst\u00e5r i l\u00f8bet af processen, og traumabonding sker n\u00e5r ud\u00f8ver er s\u00e5 gr\u00e6nseoverskridende at dine gr\u00e6nser, virkelighedsopfattelse og selvopfattelse langsomt smuldrer og du bliver afh\u00e6ngig af din ud\u00f8ver; det bliver s\u00e5ledes sv\u00e6rt at forlade forholdet og mange beskriver at de f\u00f8ler sig handlingslammet.<\/p><p>Den f\u00f8rste cirkel er p\u00e5 selve relationen, og den anden cirkel er baseret p\u00e5 den negative sociale kontrol i d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et, hvor ud\u00f8veren kan misbruge dette milj\u00f8 til at isolere offeret yderligere.<\/p><p>D\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et fungerer som en lille landsby hvor der typisk er en del rygter og sladder, og dette udnytter ud\u00f8veren til egen vinding. 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class=\"lightbox\" id=\"lightbox\" onclick=\"closeLightbox()\">\n  <button class=\"lightbox-close\" onclick=\"closeLightbox()\">\u2715<\/button>\n  <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"lightboxImg\" src=\"\" alt=\"\">\n<\/div>\n\n<!-- HERO -->\n<div class=\"hero\">\n  <div class=\"hero-inner\">\n    <p class=\"hero-label\">Systematisk vold<\/p>\n    <h1>Volds<em>cirkler<\/em><\/h1>\n    <p class=\"hero-desc\">Voldscirklerne beskriver processen i et voldeligt forhold \u2014 fra det f\u00f8rste m\u00f8de til traumabonding og isolation. Vi pr\u00e6senterer to cirkler: \u00e9n om selve relationen og \u00e9n om den negative sociale kontrol i d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et.<\/p>\n  <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<!-- INTRO -->\n<section class=\"intro\">\n  <div class=\"intro-grid\">\n    <div class=\"intro-text\">\n      <p class=\"section-label\">Om voldscirklerne<\/p>\n      <h2>Hvad er<br>en voldscirkel?<\/h2>\n      <p>Voldscirklerne er baseret p\u00e5 k\u00e6rlighedsrelationen mellem ud\u00f8ver og offer. Det starter ud med det f\u00f8rste m\u00f8de, og herefter beskriver vi hvordan processen typisk ser ud.<\/p>\n      <p>Vi har tilf\u00f8jet traumabonding som opst\u00e5r i l\u00f8bet af processen. Traumabonding sker n\u00e5r ud\u00f8ver er s\u00e5 gr\u00e6nseoverskridende, at dine gr\u00e6nser, virkelighedsopfattelse og selvopfattelse langsomt smuldrer og du bliver afh\u00e6ngig af din ud\u00f8ver. Det bliver s\u00e5ledes sv\u00e6rt at forlade forholdet, og mange beskriver at de f\u00f8ler sig handlingslammet.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n    <div>\n      <div class=\"highlight-box\">\n        <h3>To cirkler<\/h3>\n        <p><strong>Cirkel 1<\/strong> handler om selve relationen \u2014 den klassiske voldscirkel fra det f\u00f8rste m\u00f8de til eskalering og tilbagevenden.<\/p>\n        <p><strong>Cirkel 2<\/strong> handler om den negative sociale kontrol i d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et, hvor ud\u00f8veren misbruger dette lille minoritetssamfund til at isolere offeret yderligere.<\/p>\n        <p>D\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et fungerer som en lille landsby, hvor der typisk er en del rygter og sladder \u2014 og dette udnytter ud\u00f8veren til egen vinding. Offeret g\u00e5r typisk ikke ud og deler sine oplevelser straks, men ud\u00f8ver benytter enhver mulighed p\u00e5 at sladre og sprede falske rygter om offeret.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- CIRKLER -->\n<div class=\"cirkler\">\n  <p class=\"section-label\" style=\"margin-bottom:3rem;\">Cirklerne<\/p>\n\n  <div class=\"cirkel-block\">\n    <div class=\"cirkel-header\">\n      <span class=\"cirkel-num\">01<\/span>\n      <div>\n        <p class=\"section-label\" style=\"margin-bottom:.25rem;\">F\u00f8rste cirkel<\/p>\n        <h2 style=\"margin-bottom:0;\">Voldscirklen \u2014 relationen<\/h2>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"cirkel-layout\">\n      <div class=\"cirkel-image\" onclick=\"openLightbox('https:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/bGTUk7kE.jpeg')\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/bGTUk7kE.jpeg\" alt=\"Voldscirkel 1 \u2014 relationen\">\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"cirkel-text\">\n        <p>Den f\u00f8rste voldscirkel beskriver den typiske dynamik i et voldeligt forhold. Fra den indledende fase med k\u00e6rlighed og tiltr\u00e6kning, over sp\u00e6ndingopbygning og voldshandlinger, til forsoning og \"bryllupsperioden\" \u2014 og derefter en tilbagevenden til begyndelsen.<\/p>\n        <p>Traumabonding opst\u00e5r gradvist, efterh\u00e5nden som offeret gentagne gange oplever skiftet mellem mishandling og k\u00e6rlighed. Denne dynamik skaber et st\u00e6rkt f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt b\u00e5nd, der g\u00f8r det meget vanskeligt at forlade forholdet \u2014 selvom man intellektuelt forst\u00e5r, at det er n\u00f8dvendigt.<\/p>\n        <p>Klik p\u00e5 billedet for at se det i fuld st\u00f8rrelse.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n  <div class=\"cirkel-block\">\n    <div class=\"cirkel-header\">\n      <span class=\"cirkel-num\">02<\/span>\n      <div>\n        <p class=\"section-label\" style=\"margin-bottom:.25rem;\">Anden cirkel<\/p>\n        <h2 style=\"margin-bottom:0;\">Voldscirklen \u2014 d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et<\/h2>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"cirkel-layout reverse\">\n      <div class=\"cirkel-text\">\n        <p>Den anden voldscirkel illustrerer den negative sociale kontrol i d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et som et forst\u00e6rkende lag oven p\u00e5 den f\u00f8rste cirkel.<\/p>\n        <p>N\u00e5r offeret isoleres fra milj\u00f8et, kan ud\u00f8veren bruge dette som argument for, at ud\u00f8veren har ret i at offeret ikke er et godt menneske. Offeret befinder sig i et lille samfund, hvorfra det er umuligt at flytte v\u00e6k \u2014 d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et er det samme, uanset hvilken by i Danmark man bor i.<\/p>\n        <p>Ud\u00f8veren spreder falske rygter og ondsindede historier, mens offeret tier af frygt. Isolationen bliver selvforst\u00e6rkende: jo mere offeret isolerer sig, jo mere styrkes ud\u00f8verens fort\u00e6lling.<\/p>\n        <p>Klik p\u00e5 billedet for at se det i fuld st\u00f8rrelse.<\/p>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"cirkel-image\" onclick=\"openLightbox('https:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/ymFGwQt6-e1692958354449.png')\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/tegnudafvolden.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/ymFGwQt6-e1692958354449.png\" alt=\"Voldscirkel 2 \u2014 d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et\">\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<!-- CTA BAND -->\n<div class=\"cta-band\">\n  <div>\n    <p class=\"section-label\">F\u00e5 hj\u00e6lp<\/p>\n    <h2 style=\"color:#fff;\">Kender du dig selv<br>i noget af det?<\/h2>\n    <p>Det er aldrig for sent at s\u00f8ge hj\u00e6lp \u2014 uanset hvor i cirklen du befinder dig. Vi er her for dig, og alle henvendelser behandles fortroligt.<\/p>\n    <p style=\"margin-top:1.2rem;\">Skriv til os p\u00e5 <a href=\"mailto:kontakt@tegnudafvolden.dk\" class=\"email-link\">kontakt@tegnudafvolden.dk<\/a><\/p>\n  <\/div>\n  <div class=\"contact-card\">\n    <h3>Vi er her for dig<\/h3>\n    <p>Vi tilbyder fortrolig r\u00e5dgivning og st\u00f8tte til tegnsprogstalende borgere der oplever eller har oplevet vold \u2014 p\u00e5 dansk tegnsprog, af folk der kender d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et indefra.<\/p>\n    <a href=\"mailto:kontakt@tegnudafvolden.dk\" class=\"btn-primary\">Kontakt os<\/a>\n  <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<script>\n  function openLightbox(src) {\n    document.getElementById('lightboxImg').src = src;\n    document.getElementById('lightbox').classList.add('open');\n    document.body.style.overflow = 'hidden';\n  }\n\n  function closeLightbox() {\n    document.getElementById('lightbox').classList.remove('open');\n    document.getElementById('lightboxImg').src = '';\n    document.body.style.overflow = '';\n  }\n\n  document.addEventListener('keydown', function(e) {\n    if (e.key === 'Escape') closeLightbox();\n  });\n<\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Voldscirkler Voldscirklerne er baseret p\u00e5 k\u00e6rlighedsrelationen mellem ud\u00f8ver og offer. Det starter ud med det f\u00f8rste m\u00f8de, og herefter fors\u00f8ger vi at beskrive hvordan processen typisk ser ud. Vi har tilf\u00f8jet traumabonding som opst\u00e5r i l\u00f8bet af processen, og traumabonding sker n\u00e5r ud\u00f8ver er s\u00e5 gr\u00e6nseoverskridende at dine gr\u00e6nser, virkelighedsopfattelse og selvopfattelse langsomt smuldrer og du bliver afh\u00e6ngig af din ud\u00f8ver; det bliver s\u00e5ledes sv\u00e6rt at forlade forholdet og mange beskriver at de f\u00f8ler sig handlingslammet. Den f\u00f8rste cirkel er p\u00e5 selve relationen, og den anden cirkel er baseret p\u00e5 den negative sociale kontrol i d\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et, hvor ud\u00f8veren kan misbruge dette milj\u00f8 til at isolere offeret yderligere. D\u00f8vemilj\u00f8et fungerer som en lille landsby hvor der typisk er en del rygter og sladder, og dette udnytter ud\u00f8veren til egen vinding. 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